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Outside of reproduction, the male orgasm has no purpose or place in a happy, enlightened marriage. The male orgasm is selfish. It is the man's sole purpose in lovemaking to achieve it and his interest is immediately lost once he has. This also has repercussions outside of the bedroom with the sexually gratified man tending to take his wife for granted, becoming lazy and boorish as a result. A denied man on the other hand finds renewed passion for his wife and will strive for her approval and become the romantic and helpful man she fell in love with.

However, a man accustomed to regular orgasms will often find it too difficult to give them up cold turkey, no matter how agreeable he is to the idea, and may need to be gradually weaned. The dice game is an effective tool to that end.

Firstly, you must seek his approval to begin the process of weaning him. Gaining his consent at every step is a very important part of the process. This is usually easily achieved by arousing him and then gently but firmly coaxing him. Most men will agree to anything in an aroused state. Once he agrees, have him lie back while you shave off his pubic hair. This establishes your dominance over him, particularly over this part of his body, and he must agree from that time on to always present to you naked, freshly showered, shaved, and locked up prior to making love. Twice per week he will be allowed to “roll the dice” for a chance at an orgasm. On any other nights he must stay locked up and in your service doing what you want, whether that be of a sexual nature or something else.

Once you have finished shaving him, have him lock up and give you the key before rolling the dice for the first time to decide his fate for the night.

A 1 or 3 means he stays locked up and inaccessible for the duration of the lovemaking. This teaches him to give rather than receive so that his sole focus is on your pleasure, not his own. You should make an effort not to give him any pleasure in return. Just comment about how much more you enjoy making love with him locked up and thank him with a kiss good-night when you are satisfied. 

A 2 or a 4 means he is allowed to be unlocked during lovemaking. This teaches him that making love can be pleasurable without it having to end in an orgasm. This should not mean any additional work for you or that you should do anything you don't want to. Just make sure his focus is still on you while giving him just enough attention to keep him hard but no more. Then just stop abruptly mid-erection and roll over to go to sleep when you've had enough. (Leaving him erect and “unfinished” is an important part of the psychology so he learns his erections are now completely inconsequential). If he is likely to be tempted to cheat by masturbating, have him lock up again and give you the key before you retire for the night.

A 5 is a ruined orgasm. These are achieved by suddenly removing all contact with his penis the moment he passes “the brink”. This causes him to ejaculate without the pleasure of a real orgasm so that he will remain emotionally frustrated. A five defaults to the same value as a 1 or 3 once the monthly limit is reached.

A 6 earns him an unrestrained, or “real” orgasm. A six defaults to the same value as a 2 or 4 once the monthly limit is reached.

To prevent repetition and to spread things out more evenly, the dice should be rolled again anytime the same result is produced twice in a row.

Of course, any orgasm he does get should not be without conditions. Tease him mercilessly and use his arousal to gain promises from him before you grant him release. These could be anything but should ideally involve an act of submission on his behalf such as:

• Agreeing to take on a new household duty. (By the end of the weaning period he should have the lion’s share of the household chores).
• Agreeing to a dare that will take him out of his comfort zone such as posing for you in his chastity device while you photograph him or spending a whole weekend naked at your beck and call.
• Gaining his approval to advance to the next stage of his weaning.
• Or simply reassuring you that he is still on board with becoming completely orgasm-free.

Using his arousal to gain promises still works with just teasing too, which is useful for both twos and fours rolled and after his weaning has been completed. An offer of “a little more” or “a little longer” can yield the same results.

The advantage with the dice is that chance is the deciding factor so that you cannot be blamed for any negative outcome. It is entirely possible and probable that he will have to endure rather long periods of time in between orgasms occasionally. This will be difficult for him but is actually a highly desirable occurrence, helping to prepare him for the next step of his journey. You should be delighted by it and not feel any guilt or sadness at all. Be proud of his "achievement", express sympathy, encourage him but do not relent. Now is the time for tough love to see him through it.

The weaning process is done in 4 stages over 12 months. It can be fast-tracked at any point, such as commencing the next stage sooner or even skipping a stage completely, but for optimum long term success it is best to stick to the schedule to allow his body and mind time to properly adapt, even if he seems willing and coping.

During first 3 months he will be allowed 2 sixes and 2 fives per month. (After that a 5 defaults to the same value as a 1 or 3, and a 6 defaults to the same value as a 2 or 4).

During the second quarter, use the first 5 or 6 rolled to gain his agreement to only play for 1 six and 2 fives per month from then on.

During the third quarter, use the first 5 or 6 rolled to gain his agreement to now only play for 1 six and 1 five per month. During the final month of the quarter, talk him into postponing any sixes rolled until the last day. Then tease him and withhold it until he agrees to make it his last ever real orgasm.

In the final 3 months he will only be playing for the chance of 1 five per month. (Real orgasms are now off the table). During the final month, talk him into postponing any fives rolled until the last day. Then tease him and withhold it until he agrees to make it his last ever orgasm of any kind, followed by some celebration of the occasion with a great deal of affection and expressions of pride in him. From then on you should consider him permanently orgasm-free and feel no guilt in holding him to it since he agreed to it every step of the way.

Now that he is permanently weaned, you can decide in the moment during lovemaking whether to unlock him or not as you prefer. If no preference either way you can continue to use the dice indefinitely, perhaps attaching chores, dares or other novelties to each number to mix things up, or just toss a coin.